| BEGGING
THEY ONLY BEG FROM THE ONE WHO MIGHT FEED THEM.
If
"cute" ceases to work, |
|
These dogs
are ignoring everyone else in the room eating pizza. Why do they choose this
person as a target? Because he will share! In fact, the cuter they look, the
longer they stare, the more LIKELY they are to get pizza. This person has very
effectively taught them long duration intense attention by rewarding it. If
they whine and he feeds them, he will have rewarded whining. If they bark AT
him and he feeds them, he will reward them for being bossy. They aren't "bad
dogs" - they are very well trained dogs. He's just taught them the wrong
thing.
|
"Begging"?
Or simply long-duration eye contact |
"People
food" doesn't teach dogs to beg, PEOPLE do! No
people food ... from your plate.
|
The
food doesn't teach the dog. The response of the human to pleading eyes does.
The
"people food" that you should never feed your dog is food that you
are eating at the time.
People food is fine. SHARING your own meal is the problem. "One for mommy,
one for Spot" is out.
But I thought I was only supposed to feed my dog "dog food?"
"Dog food" is just people food turned into meat flavored cereal and put in a bag. It's all food: meats, grains, vegetables. The real difference between the meat in dog food and the meat on your dinner plate is quality. You buy high quality meat. The chicken meat meal in your dog food might very well be beaks and feet or the meat of old tough birds no human would consider eating. Don't give your dog the gristle and fat you wouldn't eat either, but don't toss perfectly good, healthy training treats down the garbage disposal! The dog treats in the pet food aisle of your grocery store are the most expensive, unhealthy thing you probably feed your dog - full of sugars and artificial colors and preservatives. Cut up that left-over lean turkey or roast beef into small cubes and put it in a container in the fridge for your next training session.
Work
to earn.
Begging to work is wonderful. Mooching is not. Keep it all in perspective.
That left-over piece of chicken, chopped up into treat-sized pieces and put
in a bag in the refrigerator will make a fine training session later, after
dinner is over and the dishes are done. Just be aware of what behavior you are
rewarding!
This
is just plain rudeness:
Don't let this happen to you!
Stand
up, walk away or send them to their time-out place
and make sure NO one in the family is contributing to the delinquency of a beggar!
See also: Spoiled Rotten & Foods & Feeding
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